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but he probably couldn t tell you why.
What I am about to share with you are some of the methods I
teach men in this book. If you and your husband are reading it together
then you will be able to be more aware, supportive and understanding
with some of his methods, which will help love making flow. Men tend
to loose what little concentration they have during a potential climax, so
your encouragement or tactful reminders can be most helpful if you
know what to do.
If your husband has not read this book, then you can use these
methods as request, from you to him, that will seem like something you
are asking him to do for your pleasure.
I have two methods we will discuss.
1. The Arching Energy method.
2. The PC muscle squeeze
When a Man Makes Love to a Woman
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Arching Energy
In chapter 11, Arching Energy, I explain to men how to get en-
ergy to flow using their tongue and lips, rather than allowing it to build
up potentially causing ejaculation. You may want to review this chapter
for details.
What you are going to do is tactfully teach him how to arch en-
ergy without him reading the book. First, while he is kissing your neck,
mention how much you love it when he does so and especially when he
does it so light and gentle that it feels like electrical pulses are shooting
through your body. Now you may or may not feel these small sensa-
tions but what you are trying to do is to get him to feel a sudden tickling
sensation in his lips, which will help in the flow of sexual energy during
intercourse.
Ask him if it makes his lips tickle or ask him to try to make
them tickle while kissing your neck. (You are going to have to be light
hearted and fun when trying this. You may find your patience being
tested for his lack of interest at first but hopefully you will think of a
way that will succeed).
Now ask him to ever so slightly lick and kiss your neck while
going real slow. His tongue should barely touch your skin. This will
cause the energy to flow during lovemaking.
Now give this little exercise a name so when you want him to
do it he will no exactly what you are talking about. How do you do
this? You can mention to him that when he kisses you like that it feels
like he is making love to you through your neck. So your request could
be: Make love to my neck while you make love to me .
My recommendation is to request he make love to your neck
all the time during intercourse especially if he is thrusting in and out.
One can use this method as a way to enter into a zone where stamina
seems effortless during intercourse. One can also use this method dur-
ing a pause in love making when everything is still for a moment and he
pulls his penis half way out for more desensitizing.
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A Woman s Guide to Her Man s Stamina
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Pause and Squeeze
Using the arching method is great for marinating a feeling of
stamina for a man but may be little help in resisting a potential orgasm.
That is where the Pause and Squeeze comes in.
Here are some suggestions as to how to go about using this
method.
While fondling his penis, ask him to squeeze it and make the
top or head of his penis swell and hold it for as long as he can. Holding
it is the key! Tell him how much it turns you on and how much you
would love for him to do that right below your G spot or just inside you
without moving.
You see, when a man squeezes and makes the head of his penis
swell with blood, he has to use his PC muscle. The PC muscle for men
and women is the muscle that stops the flow of urine. For men, it can
also stop the flow of semen and for women it can help squeeze the vagi-
nal walls for more intense orgasms.
The squeeze method can be used like a safety net. If you can
sense when he is about to ejaculate or he is comfortable telling you,
simple suggest that he pulls his penis almost all the way out and
squeezes on your G spot.
Being motionless, at this point is your objective while he is
squeezing because if he is anywhere near the brink of an orgasm, any
movement could cause him to ejaculate.
If he catches it just right and squeezes hard enough with about a
10-30 second rest after the squeeze, he may find that the nerves in his
penis are naturally buffered giving him the feeling of power and stam-
ina.
Give yourselves plenty of time with as much love and patience
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